Welcome to The Dating Files and dating after 50— a loosely organised record of modern dating after fifty. Names have been changed, details have been blurred, and some men may not recognise themselves. Are you looking for a "Harold"? Dating after fifty is like trying to assemble IKEA furniture without the instructions, the Allen key, or the faintest belief in yourself. You know roughly what you’re aiming for, but the pieces don’t always fit, something keeps wobbling, and you’